Thursday, February 2, 2017

It's all fun and games...

Dear Parents,

I saw that our enrichment teacher Miss Kim was playing board games in her enrichment classes this week, and I thought this would be a great time to talk about why we play board games. I present to you, 5 reasons why you should be playing board games with your child!

      1.  Board games are fun! Kids love them and they are a great way to play with your child. You will watch your child’s face light up with glee when they roll the number they were hoping for, or when they land on a ladder instead of a chute (or additionally when you land on a chute!) They have a blast spinning spinners, rolling dice, and manipulating their game pieces. They learn the joy of not giving up… just when things feel dire, they might land on that giant ladder and climb right up to the top after all! You will love the bonding time with your child, especially after the first few times when you are teaching a game to your child, and you get to just enjoy playing it. Repetition is key in the preschool years!

2    2.  Board games are a great way to learn to follow directions. They come with instructions that, being in black and white, are hard to argue. Your child will come to terms with the fact that they have to follow along the path in the game Trouble, rather than jumping forward to where they might rather be on the board. That being said, feel free to adjust the rules as you need to for younger players! I always suggest pulling the magic picture cards out of Candyland until your child has played enough times that they get the concept of the game, and they can handle the disappointment of moving backwards if that should happen. You know your child’s limits, so don’t set them up for failure!

3    3.   Your child will gain skills in being patient and playing cooperatively. It is a skill that takes time, developing the ability to wait your turn and allow others to have their turn. They will practice verbal communication and lengthen their attention span.

      4.   Your child will (really, I promise!) learn to win graciously and to lose graciously. It will take time. It won’t be easy. But it will happen. Be prepared to let them down gently when they lose, and to remind them not to gloat or to put too much emphasis when they win. Winning and losing are things that will happen all of your child’s life, and what better, safer place to learn to accept both than the comfort of your own home and the safety of your family?

      5.  Your child will learn many academic concepts. Candyland requires you to match a color on a card to a color on the board. Chutes and Ladders and Hi Ho Cherry-O use a spinner. This requires counting, as the child must count as they move their game piece that same number of spaces as the spinner indicates. Trouble uses dice, which reinforces the concept of one-to-one correspondence (the basic pre-math concept that each dot on the die represents one space on the board). There are games that use letters, shapes, colors, directions, and more! As your child gets into more complex games, he or she will learn to strategize as well.

Open the closet, dust off the board games, and enjoy yourself! And then let us know what you loved about it!